Defeminization and adult psychological well-being among male homosexuals. The reality is that my best friend has had sex with my fag hag best friend. Maybe nuns like gay men? Further, they reported rare to nonexistent sexual attraction to men. But it can be unpleasant and it takes time — some straight women love gay men for different reasons than 30 minutes, in some cases.
They did not identify as straight simply because of internalized homophobia.
According to Diamond, that sexual fluidity only increased as women aged. Meanwhile, gay men have the social license to be as outrageous or emotional as they want to be because gay men don't have to fit into such a tightly prescribed role. But after interviewing more than gay men, she reported that most saw no issue with this phenomenon.