People in bubbles never realize they're in them. So in their minds, they don't need to be tied down. That's a hangover from the early days of online dating, when paying for membership to a site meant you were serious about settling down. IF you think angry women are on the sites have you wondered about the men that made them angry?
Don't be racist or a misogynist.
Be kind and forgive yourself and those who have hurt you often. I will love him as a husband and treasure him. I am mature, Italian, tan, gray bottom but versatile looking for a fit masculine top who is versatile but likes to take charge.